What if I'm the one to blame for my own difficult circumstances?

Life happens on a need-to-know basis.

It’s easy to criticize ourselves in any situation for not doing enough, not saying the right thing, not making the right choices, and so forth.

I've noticed recently that there are little piles of "stuff" that suddenly grow into big piles of "stuff" and then all of a sudden I start to lose track of things and miss appoi